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Monday, June 29, 2009
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FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER by Dov Heller, M.A.
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!
If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a profound truth here.
Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'; You need a lot more!!!<--SETUJU!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?
You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.
Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or (2)you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart.<--Takut?Tapi kenapa agaknya?Mari fikir?
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!
Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.
QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust i.e. trust that I won't get 'punished'; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings.. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.<--Jujur dgn diri baru boleh jujur dgn org lain juge?Tak begitu
QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch?<--"Mensch" tu hape?Sila baca...
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good and do the right ';. So ask about your significant other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.
There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people?
The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self absorbed?
To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation?
If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.<--Marilah berbaik-baik!Hormat org InsyaAllah you'll get the same in return!
QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?
Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to 'improve'; them after they're married. As a colleague of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous.
The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't do your homework.
Another perspective...
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones don't appreciate you?
Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and caring words or annotations.
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?..bahaya nih!
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?<--Yang lepas tu lepas ok?PEACE no WAR!
You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self esteem, spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes,etc.)
7. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
8. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
9. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT
10. CONCERN AND CARE FOR YOUR LOVER IN YOUR OWN WAYS.
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty; and pain will replace.
Ok sekian tip berguna hari ini.Sila copy dan paste and spread the message!Edit-edit la sikit.
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!
If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a profound truth here.
Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'; You need a lot more!!!<--SETUJU!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?
You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.
Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or (2)you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart.<--Takut?Tapi kenapa agaknya?Mari fikir?
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!
Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.
QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust i.e. trust that I won't get 'punished'; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings.. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.<--Jujur dgn diri baru boleh jujur dgn org lain juge?Tak begitu
QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch?<--"Mensch" tu hape?Sila baca...
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good and do the right ';. So ask about your significant other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.
There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people?
The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self absorbed?
To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation?
If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.<--Marilah berbaik-baik!Hormat org InsyaAllah you'll get the same in return!
QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?
Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to 'improve'; them after they're married. As a colleague of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous.
The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't do your homework.
Another perspective...
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones don't appreciate you?
Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and caring words or annotations.
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?..bahaya nih!
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?<--Yang lepas tu lepas ok?PEACE no WAR!
You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self esteem, spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes,etc.)
7. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
8. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
9. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT
10. CONCERN AND CARE FOR YOUR LOVER IN YOUR OWN WAYS.
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty; and pain will replace.
Ok sekian tip berguna hari ini.Sila copy dan paste and spread the message!Edit-edit la sikit.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Mana babi mana babi?
Eh babi katne?
Pipe dah joint tapi babi hilang!
Bukan babi ini yg direfer
http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/art/PigArt.jpg
tapi ini
http://www.corrpro.co.id/images/services/Pigging%20&%20inline%20Inspection/BZZA-BC%2047.JPG
Alamak saya dah cek...babi ada kat supply barge.
Sekian kisah babi!Kalau kena tak payah samak
Pipe dah joint tapi babi hilang!
Bukan babi ini yg direfer
http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/art/PigArt.jpg
tapi ini
http://www.corrpro.co.id/images/services/Pigging%20&%20inline%20Inspection/BZZA-BC%2047.JPG
Alamak saya dah cek...babi ada kat supply barge.
Sekian kisah babi!Kalau kena tak payah samak
Monday, June 22, 2009
Pelik betul bila bukak blog buih guna leptop Party Chief aku
Hairan bin ajaib kalau bukak blog buih kat leptop party chief aku nescaya keluar byk giler tab yg tak henti-henti...sume nak kuar blog buih.
macam kena main cucuk-cucuk buih atau sila kejar buih yg berterbangan dan tepuk atau pecahkan mereka.
apsal jadi camtu hah?
macam kena main cucuk-cucuk buih atau sila kejar buih yg berterbangan dan tepuk atau pecahkan mereka.
apsal jadi camtu hah?
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Kaedah menhilangkan kebosanan apabila berada di laut dan gf melarikan diri ke vietnam
1st:Baca blog gefren
Ke-2:Baca koleksi pantun gampang anak en sobri kat blog dia~tp blog privat nasib korangla
3:Gelakla sorang sorang dalm kabin yg sempit ini
4:Pergi ke galley/mess untk makan buat kali yg ke-7(kat sini sehari 6 kali makan)
kelima:main bukumuka
6:masuk store utk amik barang-barang seperti deer skin glove,respirator dan yg sewaktu dgnnya
ke7even:percubaan updet blog tanpa arah tuju atau motif
8:tongkang sebelah ada org bela ayam.apsal pukul 0345 hrs ni dia berkokok?time zone lain kot ayam itu
sekian dulu.aku lapar balik!
Ke-2:Baca koleksi pantun gampang anak en sobri kat blog dia~tp blog privat nasib korangla
3:Gelakla sorang sorang dalm kabin yg sempit ini
4:Pergi ke galley/mess untk makan buat kali yg ke-7(kat sini sehari 6 kali makan)
kelima:main bukumuka
6:masuk store utk amik barang-barang seperti deer skin glove,respirator dan yg sewaktu dgnnya
ke7even:percubaan updet blog tanpa arah tuju atau motif
8:tongkang sebelah ada org bela ayam.apsal pukul 0345 hrs ni dia berkokok?time zone lain kot ayam itu
sekian dulu.aku lapar balik!
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
kaedah menghilang kebosanan apabila gf berada di KL
siap-sedia pasukan!kite akan pergi menjala
naik bot sume!naik naik....gerak!
ni highway yg kitorang lalu pepagi...sekilas pandang
positioning balingan jala guna GPS (sebenanya tegk muvi beramai-ramai!)
balingan mantap oleh jenal dan krew
hasil yg baik cip!
sudah petang masa utk cabut!!!!
jangan lupa posing-posing poyo!!!
sekian saje aktiviti nelayan pada hari ini.gamba2 lain ada kat fesbuk!
gua dah edit title supaya catchy......ukut saranan gf di KL!oh yeahhhhh
Saturday, June 06, 2009
otobot transform
otobot transform!!!
hoh aku dah beli topi otobot.nak beli tshirt otobot tp kaler hitam...kurang minat.maka tunggu 7 jun ke 10 kot sebab t-shirt kuar.jadi sila hadiahkan kat saya konon2 hadiah hepi besday la.beli kat petronas ok?
ini statement general tau.khas buat gf i nak barang yg dijual kat camp5.apa-apa kecuali yoga mat,baju & suar wanita ek?dapat finger board pon ok.sure fingering i lebih mantap.mesti yu suke!!!
kalau beli kat allsports pon ok.pi sana carin ateng,dapat harga staff.lagi best!hahahaa....
ok enuff of merepeking.
kulit aku naik gatal2.mcm elergik.semlm aku sakit tekak and kerongkong.pastu aku buat air asam and biar semlman.then pepegi minum.alhamdulillah.mujarab!petua mak and nenek.
pastu tetiba kulit naik gatal2 mcm elergik.iskh....julung2 kali u olls.tkpe.terima.
pastu lagi dah baik sakit tekak and kerongkong rasa berat kepala sebb selesema la plak.takpe layan jek.gatal2 nih yg tak tahan sgt.rasa nak gosok kaw-kaw.
gf aku dpt jadi supir utk akim.pergh terus star struck.nanti sure masuk blog punya.
ok kegatalan ini tidak dapat dibendung lagi....arghhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hoh aku dah beli topi otobot.nak beli tshirt otobot tp kaler hitam...kurang minat.maka tunggu 7 jun ke 10 kot sebab t-shirt kuar.jadi sila hadiahkan kat saya konon2 hadiah hepi besday la.beli kat petronas ok?
ini statement general tau.khas buat gf i nak barang yg dijual kat camp5.apa-apa kecuali yoga mat,baju & suar wanita ek?dapat finger board pon ok.sure fingering i lebih mantap.mesti yu suke!!!
kalau beli kat allsports pon ok.pi sana carin ateng,dapat harga staff.lagi best!hahahaa....
ok enuff of merepeking.
kulit aku naik gatal2.mcm elergik.semlm aku sakit tekak and kerongkong.pastu aku buat air asam and biar semlman.then pepegi minum.alhamdulillah.mujarab!petua mak and nenek.
pastu tetiba kulit naik gatal2 mcm elergik.iskh....julung2 kali u olls.tkpe.terima.
pastu lagi dah baik sakit tekak and kerongkong rasa berat kepala sebb selesema la plak.takpe layan jek.gatal2 nih yg tak tahan sgt.rasa nak gosok kaw-kaw.
gf aku dpt jadi supir utk akim.pergh terus star struck.nanti sure masuk blog punya.
ok kegatalan ini tidak dapat dibendung lagi....arghhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, June 02, 2009
happy birthday to me
so aini aku nak trencher.silap dredger.tongkang korek buat parit tgh laut utk letak paip.sangap.
so since aini b'day aku yg ke doploh lapan.aku pon no choice terpaksa nyanyi hepi b'day to me~bapak sangap.kat laut lak tu dalam hati jek.kalau tepi pantai ok jugak.
aku bukak fesbuk.ada byk betul wall post.terharu rasanya.sob sob tsk tsk.timakasih kat sume yg wish!
wahhh aku dah 25* tahun!yes
*sengaja
so since aini b'day aku yg ke doploh lapan.aku pon no choice terpaksa nyanyi hepi b'day to me~bapak sangap.kat laut lak tu dalam hati jek.kalau tepi pantai ok jugak.
aku bukak fesbuk.ada byk betul wall post.terharu rasanya.sob sob tsk tsk.timakasih kat sume yg wish!
wahhh aku dah 25* tahun!yes
*sengaja
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